The marry life is not easy and of course no matter how much love we have for each other, we will find during the first days of marry that we need to divide tasks at home, especially if you both work, and by the same way if you are planning to have children, you and your husband needs to manage your tasks as a team.
A long marriage that works finds on the team work the key to success and by the hand to conserve the love you have, since the begging stablish these way of acting will set the bases to start your family and to feel comfortable with the idea of being at home.
Tips to do it
The first great tip a can give you make that is to use a board, on this space you have to enlist all the task that both need to make at home, here you need to include everything, since cutting the grass, leave the trash, cook breakfast, cook lunch, dinner, wash the dishes on every meal, clean the bathrooms, bedrooms, flour, living room and common areas of the house.
Here you need to consider everything and of course make a schedule of the week stablishing when this tasks have to be accomplish from who. Avoid to start a routine, you and your husband can be programing to change and also do together some of the activities listed on the board in order to work as a team.
This way of act will also serve you to avoid the feeling of be in charge of everything at home, who is also the most common fount for discussion on married couples.
